It's always darkest before the dawn

matthewdadarioh:

make me choose: @masterburglars​ asked: R2D2 or BB-8

reimenaashelyee:

reimenaashelyee:

Loneliness

I realised that most of the stories I’ve written have always dealt with the concept of being alone; never as a bad thing, though the worst it can be is melancholic, but as a trait that somehow belongs to the main characters which they have accepted as part of their being. I could then easily how it echoed the experience of most of my entire life, being a very lonely child who kept to herself. I’m still the same person essentially, I still have mental conversations with myself (I think I’m a very funny conversationalist; too bad my social anxiety prevents most people other than my friends from enjoying it), but I’ve accepted this constant trait of being alone and managed to turn it into something that opens doors for me to experience the world in ways I wouldn’t have noticed (try being in a field looking at the clouds passing by! That’s my positive association with being alone).

Being in an age where everyone is connected everywhere and talking to everyone every time (Facebook, anyone?), it can make us more afraid of being alone than we already naturally are. We all have a need to belong to each other. At the same time though we need to learn how to belong to ourselves, and personally I find that it’s a very important especially with so many things going on we could very easily lose ourselves. Having a rich inner life is just as important as having a rich outer life, and they both inform each other.

*I may have jumbled up loneliness and being alone as being the same thing. Yeah I know!! It’s just how I experienced it; sometimes I really hate how I’m unable to easily make friends, which often makes me feel negatively isolated especially in a new environment (I was ALONE in college for a year until I found my clique). It’s terrible. But still things worked out in the end. Until it does though, make a friend out of yourself in the meantime.

It’s the one year anniversary of this comic! I just went through another year of loneliness - I was pretty much all by myself in a new country, with no one I knew at university - but the awesome thing is, unlike my first year in college, I was actually ok. I learnt how to deal with it better. I no longer felt the crushing terror of social inability, though I wish I was better at making more friends, and having somebody to eat and shop with easily. Still it was a good year of hanging out with myself.

piloting-the-storm:

[ by Rafal Rola ]

danisnotonfiretm:

10th Jan vs 12th Jan

helena07way:

This photo looks so domestic. Ugh

gerardwaypl:

Gerard Way poster from Kerrang!

gxbilliam:

This is so beautiful and made me think of David Bowie

guyliner-appreciation:

he did it//editing tips

housestyrell:

May your wisdom grace us until the stars rain down from the heavens.